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When your preschooler starts entering into the age where they start showcasing their personality and really pushing boundaries, you may suddenly find yourself in situations where discipline is needed. Once they’re old enough to understand and communicate, they also want to assert their own independence and test boundaries…and your patience. There will be so many opinions on how you should discipline children. While this is not a comprehensive “how-to,” we have some great options to consider.
There are ways to set your child up for success long before the first disciplinary action is even needed. Praise good behavior by setting up a reward system. Make a chart for putting away toys every day, for example. When you can check off 5 times they’ve done it without asking, perhaps they will get a reward of a sticker book or even a favorite treat!
Inversely, teach your child about consequences. Use that word and refrain from saying “punishment.” Children will learn that certain behaviors lead to certain consequences, such as removal of privileges, and they will figure this out quickly.
Stop and consider during a meltdown or tantrum, or before you enter a situation where one could happen: is my child hungry, tired, or overstimulated? Making sure a child gets plenty of sleep and exercise is paramount and consider they may just be “hangry!”
Know that every child is different, and that there will be a period of trial and error. The important thing is for you, the adult, to be patient as you find the methods that work best for you and your child or children. Once you establish a healthy method that works in your home, be confident in your choices. Do not let any website or well-meaning family member or friend shake your confidence.
To find out more about the discipline techniques we use at our school, click here.
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