Celebrate Relationships Throughout The Year, Not Just On Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is a whimsical holiday with a beautiful purpose: to shower your friends and family with love. This message is often a big focus around Valentine’s Day but not as much throughout the year. Relationships are meaningful and can often become overshadowed by the daily chores of life. Avoid the distractions of life and give a meaningful card or chocolates any day of the week!

Valentine’s Day – The Holiday

Many people aren’t fans of Valentine’s Day because they have bad memories attached to it. Those memories can start at a young age. The ritual of exchanging Valentines can be hurtful for young kids if they are excluded or passed over by most of their peers. That is why many schools require that students bring Valentines for everyone in their class.

If your child doesn’t want to give Valentines to everyone, talk to them about it. This is a great opportunity to teach them about the value of empathy and inclusivity. You can start by asking, “How would you feel if you only received one or two cards?”

If your child is disappointed because they want to do something special for their friends, you can help them write personalized notes on their friends’ Valentines. Or arrange a special Valentine’s Day play date after school.

Meaningful Cards

Giving meaningful cards to others can actually give you more joy than receiving one. If you can’t afford to buy cards you can make cards at home instead of buying them. All it takes is a little glue, markers, stickers, and some cardstock. talk to your child’s teacher.

Sweets & Healthy Treats

Gifts are almost always given with chocolate and candy, but sweets aren’t always the best choice. There are many cute ideas for a healthy gift. You could make heart-shaped melon kababs, a bouquet of strawberry roses, or a tray of heart-shaped veggies like cucumber and bell peppers. If you’d like more ideas you can always look through Pinterest.

Valentine’s Day For Students

Teachers don’t expect Valentine’s Day gifts from their students. You shouldn’t feel obligated to get the teacher a gift. If your child wants to get them something, ask them what they’d like to give their teacher. Never underestimate the value of a homemade card with a simple message from your child.

Valentine’s Day can be a fun and exciting holiday for children that allows them to express their creativity and affection for others. Remember though that relationships should be celebrated every day, not just on Valentine’s Day. It all starts at home. How you interact with your children will have the most impact on how your child interacts with others.