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As parents, we don’t want to believe that our little angels are capable of harming others. But the unfortunate reality is, they are.
Children at this tender age cannot fully comprehend the consequences of their actions, but in the long-term, their behavior affects them too.
It’s not only harmful to others around them; it’s harmful to their development as well. A child, who is used to pushing and shoving others to get what they want, will start believing this is the best course of action to get attention.
Kids follow by the examples set for them. And while you may not encourage such behavior, it’s possible they learnt it from elsewhere. But this can be stopped if you intervene early on.
Here’s what you can do:
Monitor the Shows They Watch
Shows like Tom & Jerry are still popular to this day but that doesn’t mean they’re appropriate. You may remember them fondly or even laugh at some of the scenes.
But what your child watches today will affect their morals tomorrow. There are several shows that for the sake of being humorous focus on violence. Instead of being educational, they send the message that it’s okay to hit and act out.
Monitoring what your child watches every day is one way to educate them that violence is not the answer. Take out the time to watch appropriate shows with your child to help with their early education.
You can buy DVDs for Barney and Friends, the Teletubbies, Dora the Explorer, and even Maisy Mouse.
All of these shows focus on learning something new. They focus on simple adventures that can engage your child’s attention, while teaching them the importance of kindness.
Don’t Lash Out In Front Of Them
Don’t lash out in front of your child or at them. Kids mimic their parents. If you and your partner get into a heated argument, either go outside or lock the bedroom door.
Getting angry in front of your child conveys the message that it’s okay to get mad. It tells them that anger solves everything.
If you’re angry at your child for something they’ve done, you should take a deep breath first. Then tell them in a calm tone that what they did was wrong. Then focus on solutions and tell them what they can do to make it better.
This way, you’re teaching your child to focus on healthy alternatives, and teaching them to manage their emotions.
Don’t Say Hurtful Things
If your child is vulnerable to making mistakes, don’t say hurtful things to them. Don’t say something like, “Why are you so stupid?” or, “You silly child! You messed this up. It’s YOUR fault!”
Negative feelings that kids harbor can turn into resentment. And when your child doesn’t know how to express their anger, they’ll lash out at others. They’ll throw temper tantrums and when they see other kids doing better, they’ll become irritated or jealous.
Instead, be gentle with your child. Tell them, “It’s okay, honey. Everyone makes mistakes,” and tell them you love them. A happy child is a confident child. When a child feels loved, they’ll share the love with others.
Enroll Them Into a Preschool Program
Some kids just need a little bit of love, encouragement, and time to adjust to their surroundings. Once your child gets accustomed to a new environment, they’ll learn to adapt and accept others around them. All they need is love and support from you to help them grow!
Kids ‘R’ Kids is a leading daycare center in Orlando offers a preschool program that can help encourage your child to explore their environment and creative side. We offer a safe learning environment to ensure your child gets the love and encouragement they deserve.
Feel free to contact us for questions and queries.