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It is inevitable – if you have a toddler, you have experienced a tantrum. Tantrums can be frustrating, embarrassing, and heart wrenching when you do not know how to help your little preschooler. You may not be able to completely avoid tantrums, but the way in which you handle them can make them a bit less stressful on both you and your preschooler.
Remain Calm
Your toddler needs you to share your calm during the time he isn’t able to be calm. Raising your voice or becoming forceful is not going to end your little one’s tantrum sooner, but will add to the chaos going on in his head. Instead, take a few deep breaths and model calmness for your preschooler.
React Appropriately
Pay attention to your child’s cues to determine why they may be having a tantrum. If you think your little one may be hungry or sleepy, take time to tend to those needs. If the tantrum is occurring to obtain an item or attention, try to avoid giving the desired item until your child is calm to avoid the confusion that a tantrum is the way to obtain her desires. Wait until your child is fully calm and then talk about the appropriate way to get what she wants (i.e. “Mommy, I want a hug.”). It may be helpful to practice appropriately asking for something through role play with your child.
Let Go
Preschoolers want to be independent, which sometimes leads to tantrums. It can be difficult for a child to always have someone else making all his decisions and doing everything for him. Let go of some of the control and let him make his own decisions. Give him choices you can live with to shape his choices. For example, instead of asking, “What do you want for lunch?” ask “Do you want a turkey sandwich or mac and cheese for lunch?”.
Why
Part of dealing with a tantrum is to understand why they happen and that they are a normal part of child development. KidsHealth explains why children have tantrums and provides more tips on how to handle them.
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